Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Little Guy

I took Joseph in for his 2 month check up on Monday. A staff guy brought me into the room where we weigh him and I asked if I should take off all his clothes. He said, "no, it's fine." The only reason I asked was because since he weighed so little before, the doctor wanted me to weigh him with no clothes on because those ounces make a difference in these little babies. Anyway, he weighed in at 8lbs 9oz and he measured 22 1/2 inches long. After the doctor came in and looked at his measurements he said his length is in the 33rd percentile but his weight was only in the 8th percentile. He asked if that was with his clothes off and I said no, so he had us go weigh him again with no clothes and he weighed 8lbs 1oz. So as far as his weight goes he is under the 5th percentile! He's just a little guy! The doctor said everything else looks really great and he's doing really well. I had been supplementing with 4oz of formula for about a week and he recommended I up it to 8-12oz a day. He told me it's likely that my body just doesn't produce milk with a lot of calories in it. I asked him if it has anything to do with what I am eating or the amounts and he said no. He wants me to come in again on Monday to weigh him. Joseph did really great there at the office. He even gave the doctor a big, charming smile while he was examining him!

The one thing I didn't do there though was get any vaccination shots. I have been hesitant to do that. I've read things on both sides of the issue and what I'm leaning towards is giving him these basic vaccinations: pertussis, diphtheria, tetanus and polio, but waiting until he is 2 years old and only one at a time. This is based on a recommendation in this article. I'm kind of toeing the line on this issue and would love to hear what you think about vaccinations, if you've ever questioned the issue. I really appreciate my doctor because he is not pushy at all and I don't feel like he's "looking down on me" for questioning such a standard practice. I was so grateful that he was understanding and even sympathetic to my hesitancy. He encouraged me to continue to research the issue on both sides, being sure to read reliable sources, and to just make a decision based on what I feel is best.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Is That Even POSSIBLE!?

John called me this morning to inform me of something he heard on the radio news on his way to work. A lady just gave birth to OCTUPLETS. Holy moly. This is only the 2nd set ever to be born in the US. And they were only 9 weeks early. Apparently all the babies are doing really well. But here's what is boggling my mind. The mom plans to BREASTFEED them ALL. Hello? How can she do that!? EIGHT babies? She would seriously have to have a baby on the boob around the clock! How would she get anything else done? And man. Can you imagine having EIGHT babies at once? What if you already had like 4 kids and you and your hubby decided to have just one more but you find out you're pregnant with SEVEN. I say seven because that's what this family thought they were having, and the eighth one was a surprise as he/she came out! man oh man.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Two Months Old

Happy birthday little guy! So on a spur of the moment after church today I turned our couch into a mini photo studio and put my Kiddie Kandids training to good use. Check out these cute shots I got of Joseph.


My FAVORITE





nearing the end... he'd about had it and this was the best I could get of this pose.


Daddy snapped this one in between poses. He calls it his "old man river" shot.


This was after his little photo shoot when he was getting tired. At first glance this looks like a smile, but do not be deceived by appearances!

And I just love sleepy eyed pictures taken just before he falls asleep, but he's still got his eyes wide open.




Speaking of sleeping... that's what both John and Joseph are doing right now. I wish I was too. John and I are a little nutty and stayed up late last night. We started a movie at midnight. Yeah. What were we thinking. We gave Joseph a bath before church this morning and it wore him out so well he slept through the first two meetings! I'm taking him in tomorrow for his 2 month check up. He's still seems really little to me, but he has definitely grown some inches and he is feeling heavier too. He's a growin' good!

So I think I'll be making up prints of that first picture I got... so to all you family out there who want a photo, I'm taking orders from Lindsay's mini studio! Let me know which pose you want of those first 4 and what size and I'll get it printed for you and mail it on over.

Friday, January 23, 2009

Play Time


He's still working on strengthening those little neck muscles! I dreamed last night that he learned how to roll over and he kept rolling over so much there was no stopping him!


Look who found his fingers! This actually thrills me, because I'm hoping it means he'll be able to put himself to sleep for his naptime! He loooooves to suck!


Whatever he is looking at, it must be absolutely thrilling to him. He stayed entertained at this mysterious something while in his swing for at least 10 minutes yesterday and today!

Resurrected Songs

Yesterday I bought a Little Einstein's cd at Target and as I was listening to it I heard The Flight of the Bumblebee which reminded me of these videos. I've shared them before (I think) but they are worth resurrecting on my blog. :)



Thursday, January 22, 2009

Just Curious

You know, writing a blog is rather a strange thing. I'm writing, but I'm not 100% sure who my audience is. I get on my friends' blogs and I see my blog listed on their sidebar, so I assume that they are getting on my blog and reading it as well. And of course, when you comment, I know you're reading my blog. Every now and then I get a random comment from someone who I don't know, but we usually become friends through the blogging world. There has been just one comment that I have no idea who it's from and their profile was brand new with no picture or information or anything! It really peaked my curiosity. Anyway, I am really curious as to how many people are actually reading my blog. So just for fun, if you're reading, PLEEEEEESE leave a comment on this post!!! Especially if you've never commented before! And don't be afraid to comment if you are a "blog stalker" and I don't know you, because I love to make new friends through the blogging world! Anyway... in your comment, to make it interesting, tell me what color of car you drive... mine is white.

be sure to leave your name so I know who you are!

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Bookworm

So in the year 2008, I read 54 books, as listed below. I bolded the ones that are my top recommendations to read! (although just because I didn't bold it, doesn't mean I didn't like it.) You can visit my goodreads page for my ratings on each one, if you're interested. Oh, and there are three series in this list that I'll just recommend here. In fact, I want to do separate posts on them. They are the Leven Thumps series by Obert Skye, The Great and Terrible series by Chris Stewart and The Children of the Promise series by Dean Hughes. I really love reading (if you can't tell) and have already started 2009 with a great start, reading 6 books so far. I love reading recommendations from others... so if you've got a book that you think I should read, please comment!

  1. The Memory Keeper's Daughter by Kim Edwards
  2. Leven Thumps and the Wrath of Ezra – book 4 by Obert Skye
  3. Rachel and Leah: Women of Genesis by Orson Scott Card
  4. The Alchemist by Paul Coelho
  5. The Mourning Dove: A Story of Love by Larry Barkdull
  6. A Bend in the Road by Nicholas Sparks
  7. Inside the World of Warren Jeffs by Dr. Carole Western
  8. The Work and the Glory, Vol. 4: Thy Gold to Refine by Gerald N. Lund
  9. As Long As I Have You (Children of the Promise, Vol. 5) by Dean Hughes
  10. The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd
  11. Peter and the Shadow Thieves by Dave Barry
  12. Ina May's Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin
  13. Leadership and Self Deception: Getting Out of the Box by the Arbinger Institute
  14. Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling by John Taylor Gatto
  15. Leven Thumps and the Eyes of the Want – book 3 by Obert Skye
  16. Love, Stargirl by Jerry Spinelli
  17. Stargirl by Jerry Spinelli
  18. When We Meet Again (Children of the Promise, Vol. 4) by Dean Hughes
  19. Master by Toni Sorenson
  20. Far from Home (Children of the Promise Vol 3) by Dean Hughes
  21. The Great and the Terrible: From the End of Heaven, Book 5 by Chris Stewart
  22. Hidden Treasures: Heaven's Astonishing Help with Your Money Matters by Leslie Householder
  23. Pathways to Perfection: Discourses of Thomas S. Monson by Thomas S. Monson
  24. Breaking Dawn by Stephenie Meyer
  25. An Inconvenient Book: Real Solutions to the World's Biggest Problems by Glenn Beck
  26. Since You Went Away (Children of the Promise, Volume 2) by Dean Hughes
  27. Rumors of War (Children of the Promise, Vol 1) by Dean Hughes
  28. The Work and the Glory, Vol. 3: Truth Will Prevail by Gerald N. Lund
  29. The Work and the Glory, Vol. 2: Like a Fire Burning by Gerald N. Lund
  30. The Work and the Glory, Vol. 1: Pillar of Light by Gerald N. Lund
  31. Sterling Biographies: Thomas Jefferson: Architect of Freedom by Rita Thievon Mullin
  32. The Tiger in the Well (Sally Lockhart Trilogy, Book 3) by Philip Pullman
  33. The Host by Stephenie Meyer
  34. Prince Caspian (The Chronicles of Narnia, Book 4) by C.S. Lewis
  35. The Horse and His Boy (The Chronicles of Narnia, Book 3) by C.S. Lewis
  36. The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe (Chronicles of Narnia, Book 2) by C.S. Lewis
  37. The Great and Terrible Fury & Light, Vol. 4 by Chris Stewart
  38. The Great and Terrible, Vol. 3: The Second Sun by Chris Stewart
  39. Where Angels Fall: The Great and Terrible, Vol. 2 by Chris Stewart
  40. Peter and the Starcatchers by Dave Barry
  41. Final Exam: A Surgeon's Reflections on Mortality by Pauline W. Chen
  42. The Holy Secret by James L. Ferrell
  43. The Sacrifice by Kathleen Benner Duble
  44. Bonds That Make Us Free: Healing Our Relationships, Coming to Ourselves by C. Terry Warner
  45. Amish Grace: How Forgiveness Transcended Tragedy by Donald B. Kraybill
  46. Angels & Demons by Dan Brown
  47. Gentle Birth Choices: A Guide to Making Informed Decisions about Birthing Centers, Birth Attendants, Water Birth, Home Birth, and Hospital Birth by Barbara Harper
  48. The True Confessions of Charlotte Doyle by Avi
  49. The Witch of Blackbird Pond by Elizabeth George Speare
  50. The Frog Princess by E.D. Baker
  51. The Great and Terrible Vol. 1 - Prologue: The Brothers by Chris Stewart
  52. The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict by the Arbinger Institute
  53. The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ (I recommend reading this as often as possible!)
  54. The Wedding by Nicholas Sparks

A Visit, Smiles & Baths

Last week we took a trip up to Salt Lake to visit with my family. We stayed with my mom. We got to visit with my dad too over lunch at Red Robin (one of my favorite restaurants) but Joseph was sleeping then, which was good so that he wasn't fussy while we were eating, but I would have liked to get him out of his seat and take a picture of him with his Grandpa Ball. Oh well, there will be other times. We also visited with Greg's parents who wanted to see Joseph. He is their first great-grandchild, although not a blood relation. We also visited with my Grandma Casto. Joseph is her 8th out of 9 great-grandchildren (I believe.) It was good to see her. She told us a lot of some of the births of her own children, which was fun to listen to. And just before we headed back home, we visited with my best friend from high school, but I didn't get any pictures of that either.


Uncle Chandler (11)

Aunt Saydi (7)

Uncle McKay (4)



Great-Grandma VanDyke

Great-Grandpa VanDyke

Great-Grandma Casto

The latest exciting news with Joseph is his smiles! He's been smiling for a few weeks now and it is so much fun! I love interacting with him. When he's fed and happy he likes to coo and smile... I will sit him up against my knees and usually sing songs to him. He really loves that! Sometimes I get tired of singing before he gets tired of listening! All I have to say is camp songs and primary songs sure come in handy being a singing mom!



not a smile, but I love the sweet look on his face!





a little adorable pouty lip for good measure


And as far as "firsts" go, you may be wondering where the "first bath" pictures are... well, we've had plenty of bathtimes, but no pictures yet because Joseph HATES them! We are so focused on getting him cleaned as fast as we can and out of the water. It would be torturous to him to leave him in the water a second longer to grab a camera! John hates giving him baths too because he feels so bad for him! The one thing that the both of them like though is cuddling with each other as soon as it's all said and done. John gathers him up in a towel and hugs him close and Joseph is always immediately calm in his daddy's arms.


Friday, January 16, 2009

Journal Entry

I'm sharing with you what I wrote in my actual journal this morning for therapy. I'm sure many mothers will understand. I don't think Joseph has colic, so I know it could be a lot worse. Just for the record, I think all parents with a "colicky" baby deserve great rewards... I don't know how you do it.

Januray 16, 2009

God grant me patience. I wish I could comfort little Joseph, but right now all I have the ability to do is to hold him in my lap and let him cry. He's been crying straight for the last twenty minutes. What can I do? I know he is tired. In fact he has just about plum tuckered himself out from crying and is mostly asleep. I say mostly because he keeps making deep, shuddering sighs, sniffles & hiccups, but his eyes are closed and he is trying desperately to sleep now. He gave such a deep hiccup that it scared him awake and he cried for a few seconds and then he went back to sleep. I think he's pretty much out by now, thank heavens.

Wow! Crying is HARD to deal with!!! I knew he was tired so I was trying to put him to sleep and he would fall asleep for like three minutes and then he would start squirming and wake up and cry inconsolably for about three minutes and then he would fall asleep again. I think he had some lower gas rumbles in his tummy that were waking him up. And that's the worst because I don't know really how to relieve lower gas for babies!

Anyway, after he had woken up for the third time and started crying I realized that I was getting really too tense and frustrated. I would hug him really tight and kiss his face, but I noticed I was gritting my teeth pretty hard and I felt like handling him roughly. So even though he was still crying, I put him down on the couch and just walked away because I knew I needed a break or I would hurt him. I went in the kitchen and sat on the floor and plugged my ears (of course I could still hear him though) and just tried to focus on releasing the tension in me. It took about 10 minutes before I felt relaxed again, but I still wasn't ready to pick him up or try to quiet him. So I ate a bowl of cereal, the first thing I've eaten today, and it's almost noon. That's fairly typical for me. I have a hard time eating if Joseph is not sleeping or content in his swing. And it's usually not until noon that I get to that point.

It's not often that I just leave him and let him cry it out like I did today, especially because he's so young. While I was sitting in the kitchen I kept replaying something Rachel (my sister-in-law) has told me before and my response to it now. See, Rachel REALLY REALLY loves babies and although she says she wants to wait, I KNOW she would think it was "awesome" if she were to become pregnant soon. But she really has no idea what she'd be getting herself into and I know she isn't ready to handle motherhood safely yet. I think she would end up hurting her baby and/or herself. Anyway, being that she loves babies, she has this video that she had wanted me to watch that talks about mothering and advises that you not ever just leave your baby to cry because then they may learn that no one is there for them, or no one will help meet their needs, etc. And Rachel seemed to really agree with that.

Anyway, my response to that came as I was sitting in the kitchen. While I feel strongly that I will do all within my power and ability to take care of the needs of my children, I also feel strongly that there is nothing wrong with leaving my baby to cry IF it means that I won't be squeezing him, shaking him, biting him, throwing him, or suffocating him! I would NEVER intentionally do any of those things, but I don't think it's wicked to admit that I COULD. I was shocked at the tension I felt and the flippant way I put Joseph on the couch when he was crying and I really think it's much better to take a little break to collect myself than to keep holding him while he cries inconsolably and allow that tension to build.

Anyway, Joseph, and all my other future children, just know that if I ever walk away from you, it's for your own good and because I love you and need to cool down. Believe it or not, I do have a fiery temper and can get quite wound up if I stay in situations that get my gears all wound up!

Back to what happened today. When I finished eating my cereal I had the idea to record Joseph crying and then have Rachel listen to it and watch her squirm. I think it just may curb her desire to have children so soon, if at all. Yes, babies are adorably cute and you just can't seem to get enough of their infectious smiles and coos, but if you can't also handle the cries, for there are many, then you are not ready to have kids. I recorded 7 minutes of Joseph before he finally fell asleep in my lap and now, guess what. He's awake again. And although he's wiggly, he is wide-eyed and contentedly cooing at me. I think he's still tired, though. But he needs a diaper change and he's started to fuss again, so, here I go!! Super Mother to the rescue!!


Thursday, January 08, 2009

Playing Catch Up


Merry Christmas everyone!!! And Happy New Year too! And happy belated birthday and happy new house and happy new hair style to me!! Okay, I'll go in order.

For Christmas our initial plan was to spend our first Christmas together as just us and then visit John's family later on Christmas day. Well, Christmas Eve we received a phone call from my mother-in-law saying that they were just surprised for Christmas by the arrival of Melissa and her family from Ohio. That meant that ALL of the family was there except for us, so of course we changed our plans and went to complete the picture. It was the first time that all of the family has been together for Christmas in, I don't know, but a long time! It's a good thing we went because we wouldn't have been able to go on Christmas Day due to the huge storm that lasted all day. Anyway, when it comes to Christmas, I could do like my little sister did and say "all I ever wanted for Christmas I already have!" and then point to each member of my family. It just doesn't get any better than sharing my life with my loved ones. I wish I could have spent some time with my side of the family up north for Christmas, but we'll have to make up for it with our upcoming visit this month.





I wanted to take a picture with Grandpa & Grandma Humphries and ALL of their grandchildren. Once we got them all piled together I was just snapping a bunch of times, knowing I wouldn't get everyone smiling or looking at the camera. Especially with the oldest one bawling her eyes out! Pictures are torture, I know. Anyway, I chose this one because I noticed something funny as I was looking through all of the snaps I got. Notice my nephew, Noah, who is sitting to the left of Grandma in this picture. In all the other pictures, he seems oblivious to the camera and completely enraptured by the binky in his hand. He's looking at it and playing with it in different ways, and then in this one, yes, that binky is in his mouth. And that's Joseph's binky. I thought that was pretty funny. click the picture to see what I'm talking about.

My birthday, the day after Christmas, was a lot of fun too and for the first time in a while I wasn't sick on it! John and I went to St. George, just us, and went shopping. I got my nails done and we went and got smoothies. John surprised me by getting the stuff for his sister to highlight my hair later, which I was really excited about. I was treated with a yummy lasagna dinner and a delicious homemade carrot cake with cream cheese frosting on it after we got back. So I'm 27 now... inching ever closer to that 30 mark, which really, is just unbelievable to me.



Our plan was to make our move on New Year's Eve. I know. Such a fun way to spend the holiday! And on December 29th, I hadn't packed a single thing. I didn't even have boxes. I went box hunting that evening and my sister-in-law and her family came over to help us that night to pack stuff up. They came over again the next day and we spent it packing and loading up the trailer. The 31st came with lots of help from John's family and amazingly we had our place emptied and everything moved over to our new house and even enough unpacked so that we were functional. I can't say thank you enough to those who helped!!! Now I'm just working on getting everything unpacked and organized.

We blessed Joseph last Sunday in our ward before we switch to our new ward. He looked so handsome in his little suit, even though it was so big on him. And he was a quiet little angel all throughout the meeting. John gave him a beautiful blessing. It really was a wonderful meeting. Afterwards we went over to John's sister's for lunch: sloppy joes and potato salad. Have I ever mentioned how much I LOVE potato salad? Yep, I do.









And as for an update on little Joseph... he is still gaining weight. On Monday he weighed in at 7lbs 8 oz. He's almost back to his birth weight! You know, I had no idea that babies lost weight after they were born. It's been so weird to look at my little guy and think, "you were bigger when you were born!" Well, I'm sure he's grown at least an inch since he was born, but he weighs the same! It's going to be so amazing to watch him get bigger and start to fill out more. I'm glad that I've had a little bit longer time to enjoy his littleness! He is 6 1/2 weeks old. He loves to fall asleep on people. He has a pretty good internal clock that he falls asleep and stays asleep around 10 or 11 each night. He has been used to sleeping with us in our bed at night and the past week we have been trying to get him used to sleeping in his own bed. So we lay him down after he falls asleep and then if he starts waking up again we bring him to bed with us where he'll sleep for the rest of the early morning. He's been spending 2, 3, maybe 4 hours in his own bed before sleeping with us. Then last night he slept the whole night in his own bed! We were so surprised and proud of him. He's got a little cough that doesn't sound so great... but we're just letting it run it's course and taking care of him the best we can. I really just LOVE his little baby coos! That's currently my favorite thing about him. He is starting to smile at us too, not just gas smiles. It's really fun to watch him. We are really loving this parenthood thing. :)




All right. Well, I wrote a lot. And if you're still reading, bless your heart. I hope to post more interesting things than just a log of what we've been up to... look forward to that. And in the mean time, I hope your year is starting out as fabulously as mine has!

P.S. Our Santa had boobs. This was so funny because he didn't realize he looked so "womanly," even when I asked him to pose like this!